Why Prioritizing Ourselves as Parents Is Essential

As parents, it's important to remember that we have roles and obligations outside of our responsibilities as caretakers. We were once girlfriends, boyfriends, husbands, wives, daughters, sons, and friends. We had careers, hobbies, and interests that made us who we are.

It's easy to get consumed with being a parent and forget about our own needs and the needs of our partners.

However, neglecting ourselves and our partners doesn't serve anyone, least of all our children. In order to be the best parents we can be, we need to prioritize our own happiness and well-being.

One way to do this is to schedule regular time for ourselves and our partners. It might be a weekly date night, a fitness class, or just some quiet time to read a book. Whatever it is, it's time that's just for us, to reconnect with ourselves and each other.

Pursuing our own interests and passions outside of parenting is also important. It gives us a sense of purpose and fulfillment, reminding us that we're more than just parents.

Ultimately, prioritizing ourselves and our partners is essential for our own well-being and for the well-being of our families. When we're happier and more fulfilled, we have more to give to those around us, including our children. It's not selfish to put ourselves first; it's necessary.